Imposter Syndrome - The Confidence Killer


 

Ever achieved something big… yet felt like you didn’t deserve it? 🤔

Like any moment, someone will “find out” you’re not as capable as they think?

That’s Imposter Syndrome, and it’s stealing the confidence of even the most qualified people.

In this new episode: “Imposter Syndrome - The Confidence Killer”, I share how to spot it, stop it, and step boldly into spaces you’ve already earned the right to be in.

🎧 Listen now on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WLXONky31GwjVD3rHF6hX

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